The recent incident of snatching the crown of Mrs. Sri Lanka just because she was a divorcee is in news updates and people are commenting their views on the current topic. Here I am sharing a story of a girl who had to deal with stuff due to divorce.
Coming back to the topic I am sharing my view as what has happened was wrong, as I have always been taught there is a way to do anything in life. There aren’t many ways, It’s right way or wrong way. The way Mrs. World snatched the crown was horrendous and she is been arrested for the same. Whereas as per the rules of the competition it was also not right on winner’s part to hide her marital status. The title is nothing to do with feminism yet it is for the one who is married; that’s why is is called “Mrs. Sri Lanka”.

This event is not just the one where people take out their cringe worthy thinking towards a divorcee lady. It is in the roots of the society that whenever a divorce happened that’s the girl who must be targeted.

I watch a short film on “Hotstar” named “Purana Pyaar” in which I found Mrs. Sharma didn’t remove Mrs. From her name as she quoted “life is much easier with the prefix” so I don’t think she is wrong anywhere.

My recent read “Excess Baggage” by ”Richa S. Mukherjee” is a must read for people who love “humour” In that the protagonist is twice a divorcee to which she accepted being impulsive in choosing the partner each time yet she didn’t see any wrong in being married as no matter what or how long you date each other; the real self of the better half enfolds once you share a bed and a roof. So things happen where is it not possible to adjust with habits of the other. The novel is a roller coaster of family issues yet the things I am highlighting are at work, being opened mouthed, being quick witted, being not interested in a guy, is because of her failed marriages. I mean what the hell is wrong with the society? Why don’t they live and let live? Why the marital status is really important?
That’s true if you are married you might or might not be busy for social gatherings but that doesn’t mean if a woman is divorced she is always ready to leave for parties and night outs.
Isn’t it a personal choice?

A girl got married to a boy of her choice at an early age and in 2 years of marriage she had just violence, beatings, screams and drama so she decided to divorce that guy, now unlike Mrs. Sharma in”purana Pyaar” she gave herself time of years before she thinks, she is ready to get married again.
Now a wonderful point here is as per age of 26 now she wasn’t the one who can choose the life partner. She has a tag!

She went on arrange marriage meetings to self aligned meetings:

Things she heard was: After two meetings, oops I approached you coz your status was divorcee and I thought you must be in a need of something, my wife is pregnant and I am also searching the same. She felt like puking on rusty thinking, the most she could do ATM was to block him.

Then came the guy who wanted to replace her father by not leaving her finger wherever she goes. She was applying jobs, 37 missed calls in 15 minutes. Calling back was getting a long lecture of “what was really important more than taking my call?”
A job….
Haha, you have to be a housewife after marriage what’s the deal of changing now?
The most could be done is to *block* and not to twerk on the commands of a toxic person anymore!

A woman is not allowed to chase her dreams comparatively less when she is divorced!

She didn’t listen to anyone and it was a hunt is disguise, a lot of broken expectations, but she found herself more stronger each time as she found it’s everywhere the same, home, work, news, blogs.

After a certain moment she stopped listening to anyone as her gut feeling was a guided symbol of right and wrong!